They say that life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. You’re in charge, you decide, your soul makes you who you are. that’s what they say anyway. So who we are should be completely up to us, but things don’t always work the first time, life isn’t fair. Circumstances are unreasonable, or wrong. Imperfect conditions. That’s life. But what we do with those inconsistencies is up to us. How we react to injustice, or unreasonableness is all us. Somewhere inside you, you have a place where you have decided how to react to circumstance. It might change over time, but it is because you have changed. Somewhere inside you still maintain that tiny bit of control over your life.